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Wednesday, 23 November 2022

Wednesday, November 23/2022




 Aysel, who owns the house we stayed at from March to July of 2022 has suggested we meet for coffee at Tatlı Hayat, (literally sweet, or dessert, experience) a fairly classy coffee place just inside the walls of the old city. When we first stayed in her place she was in Ankara undergoing a bone marrow transplant. Then, four days after we arrived the border closed and instead of two weeks we stayed for five months, most of it at Aysel’s.

Had very nearly lost touch as emails seemed not to connect and now it transpires  that she’s been having a hard time. Her husband gets coffee for everyone and we catch up. Cancer has come back twice and she is now beginning her third round of chemotherapy. Husband spent six months working in the South and she’s hoping to be able to get medical coverage through his work, would be a major benefit as her doctor is in the South. She also has a ten year old daughter who we met very briefly two years ago. Interestingly, Aysel spent time studying in Winnipeg a few years ago and loved it. Misses the snow, although she agrees it lasts far too long. Much of this gets translated for her partner, who also gets a look at our fairly impressive snow photos.

Return via Minder for our last visit. Walk in and imagine I can feel my blood pressure - not horrific anyway - dropping. A beautiful calmness about being the only patrons and being received with such warmth. And all four of us delighted by traditional foods. We don’t really need a starter, but it’s soup made with rice and wild spinach that the couple picked in the countryside on Sunday - the one day the restaurant isn’t open. Beautiful. Then spinach casserole and the köfte that they remember I love . And as usual we split everything. The sweet at the end is very Cypriot - a preserve made of watermelon rind, so unrecognisably sweet it’s almost candy and easiest to eat with strong, unsweetened Turkish coffee. And would we like the limoncello? We would.