Jenny and Doug have invited us to lunch in Thames Ditton, Jenny suggesting that we arrive earlier to have coffee and a quiet chat before the extended family arrive. Getting somewhat better at outguessing the bus system. There is a stop just down the road from our flat, but the shelter wall, like the others we’ve seen, no longer has handy little maps and information on routes. They’ve been replaced by info on how to report crimes on the transit system and stern warnings re committing same. There is, however, a small sign, above easy defacement level, giving the number of the stop as well as the number to text to find out when the next bus will arrive. Attempt to text the number on my less familiar mobile without having to add it to my favourite contacts. Though why not - it may become one. And can see that in a world of ubiquitous mobile phones only some of the poor, some of the elderly, and the terminally stupid are worse informed at the new bus stops. And there is indeed less scope for vandalism.
Jenny and Doug have the perfect dining table. Began life as a sturdy legged billiard table and seats twelve easily, fourteen companionably. Floor to ceiling book shelves along one side of the room and side cabinets make this a room to spend the rest of your life in. Jenny’s efficient about the serving as well - vegans at one end of the table and those eating chicken at the other. Tons of veg for both, with the luxury of both mashed and roast potatoes. And a lovely apple dessert. Some discussion about whether it’s actually a crumble or a charlotte, but delicious either way. And happily Jenny has made two of them, as Emma appears in the dining room doorway to ask calmly ‘Dad, what did you do when the oven was on fire before?’ The calm is deceptive and and it’s a minute before someone asks the obvious - ‘Is the oven on fire now?’ It is, but apparently extinguished backstage as the meal proceeds to its delightful finish.
Happy visiting time as well. Noah is the only grandchild in evidence but we get to meet Laura’s partner, who is cheerful and relaxed, and talk much more than we have before with Giles, among whose modest accomplishments it appears is speaking thirteen languages. Making my usual excuse for having learned virtually no Turkish - it isn’t even Indo-European - a bit lame. He promises to quiz me on it on our return.
Return trip under an hour and a half with all the connections perfect. And no need to eat for a week.
And an evening bonus. Watch Alan Bennet’s The Lady in the Van on telly. It’s the (only slightly embellished) story of the eccentric and cantankerous older woman who parked her van in his Camden driveway and remained there until her death fifteen years later. First read the account in Bennet’s published diaries and then, several years ago, saw the stage play starring Maggie Smith here in London. So tonight a happy end to the day with the film version, also featuring Maggie Smith.